Link to the Step-By-Step Frequency-Raising System

Hi Julia-
My name is Mykie, and I tuned in last night to your teleseminar. First, I would like to thank you for your offering. Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. I really enjoyed listening and I look forward to listening again. As I was listening and absorbing, the term vibrational frequency stuck with me for the duration of the seminar. You seemed to emphasize a correlation between love and vibrational frequency. My question is, if one has a lower vibrational frquency, does this necessarily imply that they are lacking love; or not releasing it? I would love to hear your insights on this primarily because I have been at some very low points in my life, and I am currently at a low vibrational frequency. Though I realize that this effects my relationships with other people, I am well aware that in my lowest points, I still feel love from them. I often question the self-love part when I am at my lowest; and I often question my ability to completely love.
I appreciated your comments on resistance and living in the anasthesia of the ego. I am currently in a relationship with someone I care for deeply. We are struggling with resistance from two angles. The first being from my end. I was raised in a bad neighborhood, a dysfunctional family and a broken home. I had to learn to depend on myself and make grown-up decisions beginning at the age of 8. I always had to defend myself and my siblings, I always had to protect what was mine. I grew up, gained an education and became a Businesswoman. I can't stand not being in control; thus I have owned two businesses. In my personal life, I must say, that I am extremely resistant to understanding others. Even in my relationship. I'm defensive. Things have to be seen from my point of view. I have a hard time accepting her points of view or reasoning when I disagree. I realize that this is not good for us, and this is someone who I want to spend my life with. How can I (given my history) release myself from the anasthesia of my ego, and drop my resistance to understanding.
From her angle, for reasons that remain unclear to me, she is resistant to accepting my love. She has pre-conceived notions about relationships and negative associations. While I recognize that she loves me, she often makes me want to shield my heart when she starts talking about her negative feelings regarding relationships and forever. Her outlook on relationships makes me almost feel as if there is no real hope for us. How can we work through this? What can she do to drop her resistance or at least ease it? I want the best; but the best seems to far fetched at times. I'd love to hear what you have to say.
Hopeful,
Mykie

Hi, Mykie~
Thank you for your kind words of appreciation.
Your question is a little complex for answering here. If you'd like to schedule an attunement (go to main site and click on ""Private Sessions"" and then ""Attunements""), I would be happy to address this with you. It's a great time to schedule an attunement as the price will be going up as of March 1!
In the meantime, I'm going to advise you to listen to the teleseminar called ""All You Need Is Love."" I offered this as a holiday gift for my subscribers, and I'm going to post the URL for it here so you can listen without having to pay for it (it's normally a $6 download). It will help you to understand the relationship between allowing Love/Life Force to flow through you and the level of vibrational frequency at which you are operating. I believe it will help you answer your questions. Here's the link:
http://www.recreating-eden.com/mp3files/sem-Ke6n-06-11-28.mp3
I don't think it will be clickable from here, but if you go to the December 30th blog entry, it's clickable from there. It takes an age to load, even after it says ""Done"" so just be very patient.
Love and Joy,
Julia